If you've got a good book with you, you're never bored (or alone)..

Marriage is an intimate relationship between two people. It is a bad idea to involve a third party..

The fullness of life is incubated in its messy places..

Life is both short and complicated. People sometimes make baffling choices..

As an advice columnist, I spend a lot of time reading through psychology journals to ensure that I give the most up-to-date advice..

Single parenthood is hard, but it's simple too. You just do everything yourself..

Climb aboard life's elevator, hit the "up" button, and see where it takes you..

Not every relationship can be altered to fit..

When someone repeatedly insists that something isn't true, it increases the likelihood that it is..

Boredom has an important function, because pushing through it can unleash creativity..

If you turn the heat down on the relationship, she will soften, the tension will lessen, and she will eventually inch closer to you. Don't go in for ….

We are not our best intentions. We are what we do..

Do not make your current partner pay for the crimes and misdemeanors of your previous partners..

All promises are empty - until they are fulfilled..

Friends tell the truth to one another. Friends don't slam the door to correction or reflection when it is offered with affection..

Attraction happens when you feel important, valued, appreciated and wanted..

One downside of being an optimist is that optimistic people tend to forget yesterday's trauma in the belief that everything will turn out well. This ….

Your job in life is to look after yourself and to find ways to get what you need - emotionally and otherwise - so that you live your best possible li….

People don't change when they don't acknowledge their actions..

If people thought more, we'd all have less to amuse us..

Sometimes toxic people are so resistant to change that therapy does not really help them - but they send everybody else into therapy to find ways to ….