Over and over victims are blamed for their assaults. And when we imply that victims bring on their own fates - whether to make ourselves feel more ef….

In all the interviews I have done, I cannot remember one offender who did not admit privately to more victims than those for whom he had been caught.….

Somebody needs to invent a shower for the mind, not just the body..

Once, in a three-day taping that included several sadists, the material was so overwhelming that both the film crew and I got sick - I with a sinus i….

We mute the realization of malevolence- which is too threatening to bear - by turning offenders into victims themselves and by describing their behav….

narcissists ... have the least sense of self of anybody on the planet..

It wasn't so hard being like your parents or 180 degrees the other way. What was hard was not being one way or the other..