Birth: 1954
A Rescuer isn't always a person. Addictions to alcohol or drugs, sexual addiction, workaholism-all the ways we numb out-can rescue the Victim from fe….
All of life's experiences are teachers in some sense, challenging us to grow and evolve. Although the Persecutor certainly provokes a reaction, the C….
Every Victim requires a Persecutor. But the Persecutor isn't always necessarily a person. The Persecutor could also be a condition or a circumstance.….
Some of the steps you take may end up being detours or out-and-out mistakes. By staying focused on your vision, though, you'll find even those steps ….
TED-The Empowerment Dynamic-counteracts the poison of DDT, the Dreaded Dram Triangle. TED is the antidote for DDT..
These people are often authoritarian and rigid in their views, exerting power over others in an effort to keep others from having power over them. Pe….
All victims have experienced a loss-a thwarted desire or aspiration-even if they're not aware of it..
Whatever I hold in my mind tends to manifest itself in my life. What we believe and assume creates most of our reality and our experience..
The Coach is the antidote to the Victim's Rescuer in the DDT...Mainly, a Coach supports, assists, and facilitates the Creator in manifesting a desire….
Victims may be defensive, submissive, over-accommodating to others, passive-aggressive in conflict, dependent on others for self-worth, overly sensit….
Persecutors are almost always former Victims..
Your life is a kind of laboratory where you're constantly experimenting with your own higher knowing, always increasing your capacity to design the l….
The way you create any outcome in your life is to hold the vision of your deepest desires. At the same time, though, you must honestly and accurately….
Persecutors, like Victims, act out of fear. The may seem fearless, but actually Persecutors are almost always former Victims..
Frozen in fear, you avoid responsibility because you think your experience is beyond your control. This stance keeps you from making decisions, solvi….
When you inhabit any of these three roles, you're reacting to fear of victimhood, loss of control, or loss of purpose. You're always looking outside ….
The focus in the Creator Orientation is on a Vision or an Outcome. You orient your thoughts and actions toward creating what you most deeply want to ….
Give yourself the gift of time in coming to answers for your life...It takes time, and a lot of introspection and soul-searching, to get clear about ….
Living from the Creator Orientation is actually more challenging. In the Victim Orientation, I didn't have to exercise conscious choice; I just react….
A Creator is vision-focused and passion-motivated. To really live into your Creator self, you are called to do the inner work necessary to find your ….
The way you talk about yourself and your life-your story-has a great deal to do with what shows up in your day-to-day experience. Your thoughts creat….