Persecutors, like Victims, act out of fear. The may seem fearless, but actually Persecutors are almost always former Victims..

Victims may be defensive, submissive, over-accommodating to others, passive-aggressive in conflict, dependent on others for self-worth, overly sensit….

When you inhabit any of these three roles, you're reacting to fear of victimhood, loss of control, or loss of purpose. You're always looking outside ….

Living from the Creator Orientation is actually more challenging. In the Victim Orientation, I didn't have to exercise conscious choice; I just react….

A Creator is vision-focused and passion-motivated. To really live into your Creator self, you are called to do the inner work necessary to find your ….

Give yourself the gift of time in coming to answers for your life...It takes time, and a lot of introspection and soul-searching, to get clear about ….

The focus in the Creator Orientation is on a Vision or an Outcome. You orient your thoughts and actions toward creating what you most deeply want to ….

Frozen in fear, you avoid responsibility because you think your experience is beyond your control. This stance keeps you from making decisions, solvi….

A Rescuer isn't always a person. Addictions to alcohol or drugs, sexual addiction, workaholism-all the ways we numb out-can rescue the Victim from fe….

Persecutors fear loss of control. Rescuers fear loss of purpose. Rescuers need Victims-someone to protect or fix-to bolster their self-esteem..

The way you talk about yourself and your life-your story-has a great deal to do with what shows up in your day-to-day experience. Your thoughts creat….

The way you create any outcome in your life is to hold the vision of your deepest desires. At the same time, though, you must honestly and accurately….

Whatever I hold in my mind tends to manifest itself in my life. What we believe and assume creates most of our reality and our experience..

TED-The Empowerment Dynamic-counteracts the poison of DDT, the Dreaded Dram Triangle. TED is the antidote for DDT..

All victims have experienced a loss-a thwarted desire or aspiration-even if they're not aware of it..

These people are often authoritarian and rigid in their views, exerting power over others in an effort to keep others from having power over them. Pe….

Some of the steps you take may end up being detours or out-and-out mistakes. By staying focused on your vision, though, you'll find even those steps ….

Every Victim requires a Persecutor. But the Persecutor isn't always necessarily a person. The Persecutor could also be a condition or a circumstance.….

All of life's experiences are teachers in some sense, challenging us to grow and evolve. Although the Persecutor certainly provokes a reaction, the C….

The Coach is the antidote to the Victim's Rescuer in the DDT...Mainly, a Coach supports, assists, and facilitates the Creator in manifesting a desire….

Persecutors are almost always former Victims..