It would be too easy to say that I feel invisible. Instead, I feel painfully visible, and entirely ignored..

You have to believe there are kisses and laughs and risks worth taking..

I no longer think she's just being nice. She's being kind. Which is much more a sign of character than mere niceness. Kindness connects to who you ar….

The ocean makes its music; the wind does its dance. We hold on. At first we hold on to one another, but then it starts to feel like we are holding on….

It is an awful thing to be betrayed by your body. And it's lonely, because you feel you can't talk about it. You feel it's something between you and ….

Things that matter are not easy. Feelings of happiness are easy. Happiness is not. Flirting is easy. Love is not. Saying you’re friends is easy. Bein….

Remember that at any given moment there are a thousand things you can love..

If there's one thing I've learned, it's this: We all want everything to be okay. We don't even wish so much for fantastic or marvelous or outstanding….

In my experience, desire is desire, love is love. I have never fallen in love with a gender. I have fallen for individuals..

Kindness connects to who you are, while niceness connects to how you want to be seen..

Answerless questions can destroy you. Move on..

Falling in love with someone doesn’t mean you know any better how they feel. It only means you know how you feel..

Tell me a way you think this can work." "We'll find a way," I tell her. "That's not an answer. It's a hope." "Hope's gotten us this far. Not answers..

I will never have a photograph of her to carry around in my pocket. I will never have a letter in her handwriting, or a scrap-book of everything we'v….

There is no such thing as no choice. There is always a choice. The only question is whether it's a bearable one..

We always see our worst selves. Our most vulnerable selves. We need someone else to get close enough to tell us we’re wrong. Someone we trust..

The older you get, the wiser you are - this is true. But you also question what use this wisdom is.y.

Even if you were green and had a beard and a male appendage between your legs. Even if your eyebrows were orange and you had a mole covering your ent….

Self-preservation isn't worth it if you can't live with the self you're preserving.

There are all these moments you don't think you will survive. And then you survive..

Every relationship has a hard part at the beginning. This is our hard part. It's not like a puzzle piece where there's an instant fit. With relations….