The models we have, and the standards we are expected to maintain, come to us via heterosexuality as a normative state. Heterosexuality--whatever the….

And last, we must bear in mind that the relationships between perception, thought, emotion, and behavior are neither automatic nor consistent. In man….

Sex acts don't drive erotica, the people who engage in them do..

The more you behave like you have the right to exist in the world without interference, the less others will question it. The power of a fait accompl….

Real women are fat. And thin. And neither. And both. And otherwise..

You have the right to not have to constantly manage how you look for other people's sake. You aren't here to decorate the world for other people. You….

There is no wrong way to have a body..

We don't just want what we want because we want it; we want what we want because that's what we've learned to want..