Occupation: Clinical Psychologist Birth: 1956
We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us t….
Confronting an irresponsible person is not painful to him; only consequences are..
Couples often live out years of falsehood trying to protect and save a relationship, all the while destroying any chance of real relationship..
Whatever's happening today, remember it is only ONE SCENE in a long movie. Don't treat it like it's the whole story. Keep writing the story..
A good test of a relationship is how a person responds to the word 'no.' Love respects 'no,' control does not..
Dating is a give and take. If you only see it as "Taking," you are not getting it..
Getting to the next level always requires ending something, leaving it behind, and moving on. Growth demands that we move on. Without the ability to ….
The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback..
When you encourage someone, it literally changes their brain chemistry to be able to perform... sends fuel to the brain..
Everything has seasons, and we have to be able to recognize when something's time has passed and be able to move into the next season. Everything tha….
The twin sister to autonomy and freedom is responsibility and accountability. You cannot have one with out the other. If someone is given an area of ….
You have to be able to face losing some things you might want in order to be free to do the right thing..
A leader's responsibility is to cause a vision and mission to have tangible results in the real world..
If you continue to blame other people for “making” you feel guilty, they still have power over you, and you are saying that you will only feel good w….
You will not grow without attempting to do things you are unable to do..
Christianity is not about morality. It's about reality..
The physicality of a real relationship - one that encompasses mind, body and soul - ultimately makes it more fulfilling and powerful than any virtual….
Who a person is will ultimately determine if their brains, talents, competencies, energy, effort, deal-making abilities, and opportunities will succe….
Successful people stick to what they are good at and find ways to make that larger..
A person who hasn't grieved a significant loss has unfinished business inside and can cause others great grief as a result..
One of the worst things you can die with is potential..