That we are selfish gives us the opportunity to gain the power so that, in time, we might be selfless. To give back what we have learned. To teach wh….

My inclination during sex always is to use sex toys. That's not something men are often used to..

Sometimes when we are generous in small, barely detectable ways it can change someone else's life forever..

The power of visibility can never be underestimated..

Silence equals nonexistence. If I don't raise my voice, it's like I never existed..

I've spent so much time feeling ugly and being treated as ugly as a result. But I changed my attitude and said, “I’m beautiful because I love everybo….

I’m not playing the race card. I’m playing the rice card..

Sex in general, for me, is a lot of different aspects of humanity, not just my relationships. It's my relationship to myself and my body..

My attitude toward peace does not depend on which war we are discussing. I think that words should do the work of bombs..

All the songs on Yankee Hotel Foxtrot are the encapsulation of heterosexual love. I have different records for gay sex..

There's a lot of guy comics who I think are funny, but I generally am more excited about a special or a show where there are females..

People are so sensitive about race that they can't hear someone speaking about their life in a very true way, or doing satire or political parody..

My philosophy is, "murder the rapist in your mind so you stop killing yourself." I've seen, in my lifetime, that sexual abuse has turned into self-ab….

[Smoking] was a comfort, an occupation, a drug, a casual habit, a distraction, a way to not eat, a way to not pay attention, a way to not feel..

If you are a woman, if you are a person of color, if you are gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, if you are a person of size, if you are person of i….

Your goal is to write that masterpiece. Yello's masterpiece was "Oh Yeah." Whatever I say about the song doesn't matter, because it has a huge impact….

It's completely unsexy [Yello, "Oh Yeah" 1985]. It does capture that weird '80s materialism and "We're gonna get it on now" vibe. But it's a very juv….

Comedians and people in general have a cultural right to talk about their own culture and race..

When it comes to children, my mom doesn't believe in borders. She loves all children, and that's a good example of mothering the world. I need to do ….

I'm not a body shamer. The word fat has been used to hurt me my entire life..

If you have sex, it should be for you, not for the other person..