The privilege of privilege is that the terms of privilege are rendered invisible. It is a luxury not to have to think about race, or class, or gender….

Many boyfriends or close male friends seem so different when they are by themselves, as opposed to when they are with a bunch of other guys. I think ….

Many guys see relationships with women as a zero-sum game: If she wins, he loses. Marriage is the ultimate contest: Her job is to get him to capitula….

The pull of Guyland reminds us that women cannot accomplish this transformation alone. In the book's final chapter I argue that just as men need to s….

White men in Europe and the US are the beneficiaries of the single greatest affirmative action program in the history of the world; it is called the ….

So guys who are otherwise sensitive and thoughtful say and do ridiculously dumb things to impress other guys. It's an enormous performance, but guys ….

My colleagues and I have done a survey of 13,000 students on more than 17 campuses, and we found that while sex in college has always been a bit more….

White men in North America are the beneficiaries of the single biggest affirmative action program in world history. It's called world history..

Some of the worst elements of Guyland rest on the twin pillars of men's silence and women's compliance..

We have the data to prove to men that gender equality is not a zero-sum game, but a win-win..

Feminism loves men enough to expect them to act more honorably and actually believes them capable of doing so..

Playing along with Guyland may be the only way an individual woman might believe she has a chance at a social life or a relationship. Sometimes it ge….

The good news is that women's roles have changed so dramatically over the past three decades that women now expect to have careers, balance work and ….

Ironically, survey after survey shows that married men are happier and healthier than unmarried men. Oh, and they also have more sex..

It's like what you might call Goldilocks' dilemma in the old fairy tale. Young men see women as "less than" or "better than," but never their equals.….

Guys constantly talk about pornography in two ways: as revenge and as reassurance. When you live in a world in which beautiful, sexy women are all ar….

I believe that Americans are entitled. We're entitled to have a job that makes us feel like we have some dignity in our lives, that we live a life of….

Young men are eager to "hook up" with women. And many say they have very good female friends. But some of the emotions circulating among guys make it….

And few hookups, if any, ever take place sober. And while wearing "beer goggles" may make people appear more attractive, it doesn't exactly make for ….

I think there is another choice for women; it involves challenging Guyland and supporting each other..

Privilege is invisible to those who have it..