Occupation: Author Birth: November 22, 1961
Intimate justice touches on ideas of gender inequity, violence, bodily integrity, physical and mental health. I don't expect a 15-year-old girl to ha….
Sexualization is the performance of sexuality, the performance of sexiness. Girls are super good at that now..
Saying "yes" [to sexual activity] is a pretty low baseline for sexual experience and I wanted to write about what was happening to girls after "yes.".
But it is Bella, not the supernaturals she falls in with, who is the true horror show here, at least as a female role model..
Marketing to girls constantly presents a hypersexualized idea of girls; they're expected to appear sexy but be cut off from their sexuality..
The point of creativity is to express and challenge yourself, to make meaning, to embrace your life..
I never expected, when I had a daughter, that one of my most important jobs would be to protect her childhood from becoming a marketers' land grab..
Effectively, it makes the greasepaint permanent, blurring the lines not only between public and private but also between the authentic and contrived ….
American Psychological Association, the girlie-girl culture’s emphasis on beauty and play-sexiness can increase girls’ vulnerability to the pitfalls ….
Mothers are doing a better job talking about risk, danger, reproduction, consent, unwanted pregnancy. We're not talking about how to balance the risk….
Girls are freer to express their femininity and their sexuality and we're not tamping that down or denying it anymore. But it ends up putting them, f….
Girls would say: "I have a boyfriend for that." So in addition to putting their pleasure literally into someone else's hands - an inept teenage boy -….
I had a lot of girls ask me whether it was weird that they didn't make a lot of noise during sex. I would get so irritated that they had learned this..
For years we've used the bases analogy - with intercourse being the "ultimate sex" even though that's probably not going to feel good to girls. That ….
A lot of what happens in consensual encounters and in the way we talk to both girls and boys about sex creates a medium in which assault flourishes..
I asked a high school girl about unreciprocated oral sex and said, "What if guys were asking you to get them a glass of water and never offered to yo….
We continue to think of virginity as first intercourse. That ends up minimizing and marginalizing other things kids are engaged in, like oral sex. An….
There is a way hook ups are serving young women. And it was important for me to always talk about how behaviours were serving girls, not just making ….
The anesthetizing against caring really threw me for a loop. I was seeing it with 15-year-olds. It was how they were starting their intimate lives. I….