Birth: September 15, 1947
Wanting someone so much that his very presence takes your breath away is one of the most thrilling happenings in life. Not getting him in no way dimi….
Falling in love with another man is like falling into a vast vat of yourself. For some men this is ultimately nourishing, for others . . . it is drow….
The most amazing thing about young men is how invisible they were to you when you were young. It is also the most poignant..
There may be a point in your life in which you are drowning so fast and fighting it so furiously that you don't have the strength left to call out fo….
There are certain restaurants where you should photograph the food rather than eat it. These are great places to bring a narcissistic boyfriend befor….
Ageism is the racism of the gay world. We really believe that age-and all of our fears that it carries-will "rub off" on us, the way that racists onc….
There are two things in life that money cannot buy: health and happiness. Aside from that, it does an excellent job..
Try to dwell on the people you'd like to love, instead of all the people you do loathe..
The most beautiful man in the world says everything with his eyes, and the rest with his hands and mouth..
Have hot, wild sex with a friend. Then go out and do something stupid, like bowl, afterwards..
Get out of your house in the middle of a rainstorm, get soaked in it, and then strip down-to nothing but a smile..
Fashion is the art of making the unimportant indispensable..
Although computers allow people to talk at the speed of light, no one talks that fast..
We think of death and loss as tragic twins, but in fact it is loss that hurts us..
The lowest form of barbarism is smugly to berate someone for extending an act of kindness..
Learn the absolute pleasure of kindness..
The Egyptians had a particularly nasty way of getting rid of people they felt had no consequence. Instead of embalming them, they simply constructed ….
Be reckless in your intensities..
To extend oneself does not necessarily mean to have an erection..
Stay up and listen to lightening. If there is no lightening around, stay up and listen to nothing. Just listen to the sheer joy of your thoughts tran….
I prefer the "tackiest" person in the world to the stylish person who has no tact..