Three great ways to lose a lover: Talk to him the way your mother talked to your father. Berate him in public because everybody loves an audience. Co….

Hold the door for an old man. Old ladies can take care of themselves; they've been doing it long enough..

Clothes do not make the man; friends and engagement with life do..

Perhaps success should not mean that you have nothing to say to anyone, no time for anybody, and not a moment left in your calendar for someone whom ….

The most wonderful revenge you can have is by dumping an attractive, vacant man for an uglier one. That way all of his friends can scratch their head….

Still water does not only run deep. It runs dangerously..

One of the problems with technology is that no photograph, as superb and outstanding as it may be, will ever be as satisfying as the most middle-rate….

If you've been taught to keep every part of you to yourself, don't expect people to come knocking on your door to run their hands over the choice par….

Start a conversation with someone with whom you have "nothing in common" and no possibility of scoring with, networking with, or even seeing again. I….

Take up something that you know will never bring you any returns except pleasure-in other words, allow yourself to live the way brilliant eighteenth ….

Stay up and listen to lightening. If there is no lightening around, stay up and listen to nothing. Just listen to the sheer joy of your thoughts tran….

Although computers allow people to talk at the speed of light, no one talks that fast..

Fashion is the art of making the unimportant indispensable..

Wanting someone so much that his very presence takes your breath away is one of the most thrilling happenings in life. Not getting him in no way dimi….

Falling in love with another man is like falling into a vast vat of yourself. For some men this is ultimately nourishing, for others . . . it is drow….

The most amazing thing about young men is how invisible they were to you when you were young. It is also the most poignant..

There may be a point in your life in which you are drowning so fast and fighting it so furiously that you don't have the strength left to call out fo….

There are certain restaurants where you should photograph the food rather than eat it. These are great places to bring a narcissistic boyfriend befor….

Ageism is the racism of the gay world. We really believe that age-and all of our fears that it carries-will "rub off" on us, the way that racists onc….

There are two things in life that money cannot buy: health and happiness. Aside from that, it does an excellent job..

Try to dwell on the people you'd like to love, instead of all the people you do loathe..