It seems to me, that this, too, is how memory works. What we remember of what was done to us shapes our view, molds us, sets our stance. But what we ….

Because mothers make us, because they map our emotional terrain before we even know we are capable of having an emotional terrain, they know just whe….

My mother is very ideologically based, and her ideology is much more important in many ways than her personal relationships..

. . . when it comes down to it, that’s what life is all about: showing up for the people you love, again and again, until you can’t show up anymore..

Judgements like "right" and "wrong"; only build barriers and encourage shame within individuals..

Sex can look like love if you don't know what love looks like..

One may be nice on the outside but on the inside isnt pretty.

Take this one in my belly. He (or she) is determined to be here. I can feel the force of his being. It's as if he has something to do here and just w….