It is our peculiar punishment that we know things change and we want this to be otherwise..

Sex can be renounced -- but sexuality cannot. We can't avoid sexual issues by avoiding sex, or by dismissing its importance, or by showing disrespect….

But when I look in the basin, among the curdlike blood clots, I see and elfin thorax, attentuated, its pencilline ribs all in parallel rows with tiny….

Sex is a game, a weapon, a toy, a joy, a trance, an enlightenment, a loss, a hope..

How I became a better writer was that I kept writing..

The sex that is presented to us in everyday culture feels strange to me; its images are fragments, lifeless, removed from normal experience. Real sex….

Humans are a young species, and my little life abides in a very big place, where epochs glide by as swiftly as the mongoose. And strangely enough, wh….

By letting go of dieting, I free up mental and emotional room. I have more space, I can move. The pursuit of another, elusive body, the body someone ….

Sexual acts are one of the primary means by which we can act out our inarticulated inner lives..

You don't write. You get out of the way..