I'm lazy but generally task oriented so having a hoop to jump through means eventually I'll make the effort..

A good funeral gets the dead where they need to go and the living where they need to be..

Grief is the price we pay for being close to one another. If we want to avoid our grief, we simply avoid each other..

So I suppose poetry, language, the shaping of it, was and remains for me an effort to make sense out of essentially senseless situations..

There's no easy way to do this. So do it right: weep, laugh, watch, pray, love, live, give thanks and praise; comfort, mend, honor, and remember..

Wanting to be near my bread and butter business which was my hairstyling salon, I have done little touring during my lifetime. I hate all this moving….

I'm more interested in the meaning of funerals and the mourning that people do. It's not a retail experience. It's an existential one..

If I were assigned poems I suppose I'd write more of them but it is entirely voluntary and for the most part ignored in the market sense of the word ….

Grief is the tax we pay on our attachments..

Well the themes for me were and remain sex and love and grief and death - the things that make us and undo us, create and destroy, how we breed and d….

Whatever's there to feel, feel it—the riddance, the relief, the fright and freedom, the fear of forgetting, the dull ache of your own mortality. Get ….

Poems seem to have a life of their own. They tell you when enough is enough..

But poetry is a way of language, it is not its subject or its maker's background or interests or hobbies or fixations. It is nearer to utterance than….

... by doing you shall know What it is you have to do..