Somewhat paradoxically, parenting programs should focus on the behavior of the parents not the behavior of the children..

The best way for parents to go about acquiring a mind-set of self-reflective parenting will be different for different individuals. Some people will ….

Demonstrating faith and optimism in the child or adolescent's ability to work things out in their own time and in their own way can be very difficult….

A parenting program should provide time for parents to clarify their own ideas about what it means to be an effective and successful parent..

I consider parenting skills, those skills that help children: (1) develop clear and important goals; and (2) figure out flexible and persistent ways ….

One of the premises of parenting might be that the job of parents is to teach their kids to get along without them..

When a child or adolescent is troubled, the most important thing for the parent to focus on may very well be their relationship with their child or a….

There is no one best way for parents to become the parents they want to be just as there is no one best way for a child to grow into a contented and ….

Once parents have a clear idea of their important parenting goals, beliefs, and values, they can then think about specific situations and identify th….

Accessing a "professional listener" such as a psychologist or counselor can be useful if the loved one wants to use this form of support..

I can’t even take a stroll through a park. As soon as women see my face they start gathering up their children and running for home..

Any statements from the parents may seem like criticism or judgment by the child or adolescent. It's very important that the child or adolescent does….

Seeking the counsel of trusted and respected health professionals can also be helpful in providing parents with some balance for their concerns as we….

I always thought if you really want to be a good actor, you've got to be able to fart in public. That, to me, is the most important. If you are so in….

In order to be effective decision makers and to live satisfying and contented lives, people need to be aware of their goals, desires, and purposes an….

Spending time with the child or adolescent in mutually enjoyable activities on a regular basis will help to build warmth and trust..

Parents typically don't talk to each other about their goals and attitudes to parenting but this type of conversation could be very useful for helpin….

Attitudes of optimism, of "let them be", and of joy in watching and helping another life develop and blossom will help parents relish their parenting….

Prioritizing listening to their child or adolescent is extremely important. It can be very hard to listen to someone who is upset or troubled without….

Sometimes offering support and making yourself available when the child or adolescent is ready to talk can be the most helpful you can be..

One of the most important goals to have may well be the goal to create the life you want without preventing other people from creating the life they ….