Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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When abroad, behaveto everyone as if interviewing an honored guest; in directing the people, act as if you were assisting at a great sacrafice; DO NOT DO TO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD NOT LIKE DONE TO YOURSELF: so there will be no murmuring against you in the country, and none in the family; your public life will arouse no ill-will nor your private life any resentment.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Treat others with respect and kindness to foster harmony in both public and private life.
This quote by Confucius emphasizes the importance of treating others with the utmost respect and dignity, comparing interactions to hosting an honored guest. By advocating for the 'Golden Rule'—to not do to others what you would not want done to yourself—it underlines that such behavior not only nurtures peaceful relationships in society but also within the family, therefore creating a harmonious existence free of resentment and ill-will.
Themes
RespectKindnessHarmonyInteractionsGolden Rule
In practice
Example use cases
This quote would be perfect to share during a team-building exercise to encourage respectful communication.
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