To forgive is not to forget. The merit lies in loving in spite of the vivid knowledge that one that must be loved is not a friend. There is not merit in loving an enemy when you forget him for a friend.
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We should meet abuse by forbearance. Human nature is so constituted that if we take absolutely no notice of anger or abuse, the person indulging in it will soon weary of it and stop.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Responding to aggression with patience can lead to its cessation.
Mahatma Gandhi suggests that instead of reacting to verbal or emotional attacks with anger, one should practice forbearance or patience. By not giving attention to abuse, the aggressor may tire of their behavior, leading to an end of hostility. This reflects a deeper understanding of human nature and the dynamics of conflict, promoting a peaceful resolution over escalation.
Themes
ForbearanceAngerConflictPeacePatience
In practice
Example use cases
During a heated discussion about politics, one might use this quote to encourage friends to remain calm and avoid escalation.
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