I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others.
Marcus AureliusRead
Accustom yourself not to be disregarding of what someone else has to say: as far as possible enter into the mind of the speaker.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Listen actively and empathize with others to understand their perspective.
This quote by Marcus Aurelius emphasizes the importance of active listening and empathy in communication. It urges individuals to set aside their own judgments and preconceptions in order to truly grasp the thoughts and feelings of the speaker, fostering deeper connections and mutual understanding.
Themes
ListeningEmpathyCommunicationUnderstandingPerspective
In practice
Example use cases
In a team meeting, when discussing project ideas, I reminded everyone of Marcus Aurelius' quote to encourage open dialogue.
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