Adolescents swing from euphoric self-confidence and a kind of narcissistic strength in which they feel invulnerable and even immortal, to despair, self-emptiness, self-deprecation. At the same time they seem to see an emerging self that is unique and wonderful, they suffer an intense envy which tears narcissism into shreds, and makes other people's qualities hit them like an attack of lasers.
Preoccupied with her self, the adolescent sees enormous changes, whereas the parent sees the child she knew all along. For the parent, new developmen… - Terri E Apter
Preoccupied with her self, the adolescent sees enormous changes, whereas the parent sees the child she knew all along. For the parent, new developmen…
- Terri E Apter
One of the main tasks of adolescence is to achieve an identity--not necessarily a knowledge of who we are, but a clarification ofthe range of what we… - Terri E Apter
One of the main tasks of adolescence is to achieve an identity--not necessarily a knowledge of who we are, but a clarification ofthe range of what we…
This is the hope of many adolescent girls--to capture a parent's heart with love for them as they are, as people. They reject thenotion of being love… - Terri E Apter
This is the hope of many adolescent girls--to capture a parent's heart with love for them as they are, as people. They reject thenotion of being love…
Adolescents swing from euphoric self-confidence and a kind of narcissistic strength in which they feel invulnerable and even immortal, to despair, se… - Terri E Apter
Adolescents swing from euphoric self-confidence and a kind of narcissistic strength in which they feel invulnerable and even immortal, to despair, se…
When a mother quarrels with a daughter, she has a double dose of unhappiness-hers from the conflict, and empathy with her daughter's from the conflic… - Terri E Apter
When a mother quarrels with a daughter, she has a double dose of unhappiness-hers from the conflict, and empathy with her daughter's from the conflic…
We may be aware of small increments of getting older; we may meet an increasing number of people who make us uneasy with their youth; but the fact of… - Terri E Apter
We may be aware of small increments of getting older; we may meet an increasing number of people who make us uneasy with their youth; but the fact of…
Adolescence has been recognised as a stage of human development since medieval times--long, long before the industrial revolution--and, as it is now,… - Terri E Apter
Adolescence has been recognised as a stage of human development since medieval times--long, long before the industrial revolution--and, as it is now,…
Adolescents do get very angry with their parents, and acknowledging this anger is part of acknowledging them. If the anger is notacknowledged then it… - Terri E Apter
Adolescents do get very angry with their parents, and acknowledging this anger is part of acknowledging them. If the anger is notacknowledged then it…
The myth of independence from the mother is abandoned in mid- life as women learn new routes around the mother--both the mother without and the mothe… - Terri E Apter
The myth of independence from the mother is abandoned in mid- life as women learn new routes around the mother--both the mother without and the mothe…
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