Sooner or later, false thinking brings wrong conduct.
Julian HuxleyRead
Before you give advice, that is to say advice which you have not been asked to give, it is well to put to yourself two questions - namely, what is your motive for giving it, and what is it likely to be worth? If these questions were always asked, and honestly answered, there would be less advice given.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Before offering unsolicited advice, consider your intentions and its potential value.
This quote by John William Mackail emphasizes the importance of reflecting on one's motives and the relevance of unsolicited advice. It suggests that many people offer advice without fully considering whether it is appropriate or beneficial, which could lead to unnecessary confusion or misguidance.
Themes
AdviceMotiveWorthReflectionUnsolicited
In practice
Example use cases
During team meetings, remind colleagues of the importance of considering motives before giving feedback.
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