We ought not to extract pernicious honey from poison blossoms of misrepresentation and mendacious half-truth, to pamper the course appetite of bigotry and self-love.
Samuel Taylor ColeridgeRead
Advice is like snow - the softer it falls, the longer it dwells upon, and the deeper it sinks into the mind.
Interpretation
This quote suggests that gentle, considerate advice is more impactful and lasting than forceful, harsh advice.
Coleridge's analogy compares advice to snow, implying that the manner in which advice is given can affect its acceptance and retention. Softer, more compassionate advice tends to be more deeply absorbed and contemplated, leading to a stronger and more enduring impact on the recipient's thoughts and actions.
In practice
In a motivational talk about leadership, someone might reference this quote to highlight the importance of providing constructive and gentle feedback.
We ought not to extract pernicious honey from poison blossoms of misrepresentation and mendacious half-truth, to pamper the course appetite of bigotry and self-love.
Common sense in an uncommon degree is what the world calls wisdom.
And all who heard should see them there, And all should cry, Beware! Beware! His flashing eyes, his floating hair! Weave a circle round him thrice, And close your eyes with holy dread, For he on honey-dew hath fed, And drunk the milk of Paradise.
Often do the spirits stride on before the event; and in today already walks tomorrow.
Mr. Lyell's system of geology is just half the truth, and no more. He affirms a great deal that is true, and he denies a great deal which is equally true; which is the general characteristic of all systems not embracing the whole truth.
To believe and to understand are not diverse things, but the same things in different periods of growth.
The Voice of Reason is in us all...and everyone can recognize it because it makes sense and everyone benefits from it equally.
Look round the habitable world, how few Know their own good, or, knowing it, pursue!
A Warrior also knows that the fool who gives advice about someone else's garden is not tending his own plants.
So may the outward shows be least themselves: The world is still deceived with ornament. In law, what plea so tainted and corrupt, But, being seasoned with a gracious voice, Obscures the show of evil? In religion, What damned error, but some sober brow Will bless it and approve it with a text, Hiding the grossness with fair ornament? There is no vice so simple but assumes Some mark of virtue on his outward parts.
When you want wisdom and insight as badly as you want to breathe, it is then you shall have it.
I never have [suffered writer’s block], although I’ve had books that didn’t work out. I had to stop writing them. I just abandoned them. It was depressing, but it wasn’t the end of the world. When it really isn’t working, and you’ve been bashing yourself against the wall, it’s kind of a relief. I mean, sometimes you bash yourself against the wall and you get through it. But sometimes the wall is just a wall. There’s nothing to be done but go somewhere else.
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