Life must be lived and curiosity kept alive. One must never, for whatever reason, turn his back on life.
Eleanor RooseveltRead
We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all.
Interpretation
Fear of emotional vulnerability can prevent us from expressing our care for others.
This quote reflects the common human fear of emotional investment in relationships, suggesting that we often hold back our affection and concern for others out of a worry that those feelings may not be reciprocated. Eleanor Roosevelt highlights the inherent risk in caring deeply for someone, which can lead to hesitation and self-protection, thereby impacting the depth of our connections with others.
In practice
In a discussion about why people hesitate to form deep connections, this quote could be shared to illustrate the emotional risks involved.
Life must be lived and curiosity kept alive. One must never, for whatever reason, turn his back on life.
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