Any ritual is an opportunity for transformation. To do a ritual, you must be willing to be transformed in some way. The inner willingness is what makes the ritual come alive and have power. If you aren't willing to be changed by the ritual, don't do it.
It happens over and over again—a group of people come together, fired up with passion to create change. They begin with huge inspiration and enthusiasm—and a year later, it’s all foundered in the mire of conflict. We could have changed the world ten times over—if we didn’t have to do it together with other people, those irritating, self-righteous, controlling, fluff-brained, clueless idiots who are our friends and allies.
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What this quote means
Collaborating with others can lead to conflict, which hinders progress towards change.
This quote by Starhawk highlights the challenges of teamwork in the pursuit of social change. It emphasizes the initial enthusiasm that people often have when coming together with a shared vision, but it also warns of the potential conflicts and frustrations that can arise in collaborative efforts. The speaker reflects on the irony that while the group possesses the power to create significant change, interpersonal issues may prevent them from achieving their goals, reminding us that working with others can often be more challenging than it seems.
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Example use cases
This quote could be used in a discussion about the importance of effective communication in team projects.
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