To forgive is not to forget. The merit lies in loving in spite of the vivid knowledge that one that must be loved is not a friend. There is not merit in loving an enemy when you forget him for a friend.
Mahatma GandhiRead
The ally we must cultivate is the part of our enemy which knows the truth.
Interpretation
We should recognize that even our enemies may hold truths that can help us grow and improve.
In this quote, Mahatma Gandhi emphasizes the importance of understanding and acknowledging the aspects of our adversaries that possess truth and honesty. By doing so, we can foster a better dialogue and potentially transform conflict into constructive engagement, ultimately leading to deeper insights and resolutions.
In practice
In a team meeting to encourage collaboration and open-mindedness.
To forgive is not to forget. The merit lies in loving in spite of the vivid knowledge that one that must be loved is not a friend. There is not merit in loving an enemy when you forget him for a friend.
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Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.
The real test of nonviolence lies in its being brought in contact with those who have contempt for it.
Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.
The devotion of such titans of spirit as Lenin to an Ideal must bear fruit. The nobility of his selflessness will be an example through centuries to come, and his Ideal will reach perfection.
I covet truth; beauty is unripe childhood's cheat; I leave it behind with the games of youth.
I don't tell people, 'You're okay the way that you are.' That's not the right story. The right story is, 'You're way less than you could be.'
The free exploring mind of the individual human is the most valuable thing in the world.
A buddha laughs too, but his laughter has the quality of a smile. His laughter has the feminine quality of grace. When an ignorant person laughs, his laughter is very aggressive, egoistic. The ignorant person always laughs at others. The contented person, the person who knows life a little, laughs at himself - at the whole play of life itself. It is not addressed to anybody in particular. He just laughs at the absurdity of it all... the impossibility of it all.
Can you gather your vital breath and yet be tender like a newborn baby?
Cheap booze is a false economy.
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