You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
Almost anything that you pay close, direct attention to becomes interesting.
Interpretation
Focusing intently on something can reveal its inherent interest and significance.
David Foster Wallace's quote suggests that the act of paying close, direct attention to something transforms the way we perceive it, making it more interesting and meaningful. This idea emphasizes the power of mindfulness and engagement in our daily lives, encouraging us to delve deeper into the world around us and discover the beauty and complexity that may otherwise go unnoticed.
In practice
In a presentation about the importance of mindfulness practices.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
Everything in my own immediate experience supports my deep belief that I am the absolute center of the universe, the realest, most vivid and important person in existence.
It seems important to find ways of reminding ourselves that most 'familiarity' is meditated and delusive.
Under fun's new administration, writing fiction becomes a way to go deep inside yourself and illuminate precisely the stuff you don't want to see or let anyone else see, and this stuff usually turns out (paradoxically) to be precisely the stuff all writers and readers share and respond to, feel.
Acceptance is usually more a matter of fatigue than anything else.
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A cosmic philosophy is not constructed to fit a man; a cosmic philosophy is constructed to fit a cosmos. A man can no more possess a private religion than he can possess a private sun and moon.
Getting and spending, we lay waste our powers.
Now I'm an old Christmas tree, the roots of which have died. They just come along and while the little needles fall off me replace them with medallions.
Secrecy is thus, so to speak, a transition stadium between being and not-being.
In fact, it is a farce to call any being virtuous whose virtues do not result from the exercise of its own reason.
We can bear to be deprived of everything but our self-conceit.
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