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I am always saying "Glad to've met you" to somebody I'm not at all glad I met. If you want to stay alive, you have to say that stuff, though.
J. D. Salinger
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What this quote means

The quote reflects the social necessity of politeness and the pretense that often accompanies human interactions.

In this quote, J.D. Salinger captures the complexity of social interactions, emphasizing the need for individuals to mask their true feelings to maintain social harmony. The phrase 'Glad to've met you' symbolizes the polite facade people often put on, even when they feel the opposite. This can highlight the tension between authenticity and societal expectations, suggesting that surviving in society sometimes requires a level of disingenuousness.

Themes

PolitenessRelationshipsSocial InteractionsFacadeAuthenticity

In practice

Example use cases

During a networking event where you meet someone you don't particularly like but need to maintain a professional demeanor.

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Against my better judgment I feel certain that somewhere very near here—the first house down the road, maybe—there's a good poet dying, but also somewhere very near here somebody's having a hilarious pint of pus taken from her lovely young body, and I can't be running back and forth forever between grief and high delight.
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I'm not afraid to compete. It's just the opposite. Don't you see that? I'm afraid I will compete — that's what scares me. That's why I quit the Theatre Department. Just because I'm so horribly conditioned to accept everybody else's values, and just because I like applause and people to rave about me, doesn't make it right. I'm ashamed of it. I'm sick of it. I'm sick of not having the courage to be an absolute nobody. I'm sick of myself and everybody else that wants to make some kind of a splash.
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Each of his phrases was rather like a little ancient island, inundated by a miniature sea of whiskey.
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