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I am always saying "Glad to've met you" to somebody I'm not at all glad I met. If you want to stay alive, you have to say that stuff, though.
J. D. Salinger
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote reflects the social necessity of politeness and the pretense that often accompanies human interactions.

In this quote, J.D. Salinger captures the complexity of social interactions, emphasizing the need for individuals to mask their true feelings to maintain social harmony. The phrase 'Glad to've met you' symbolizes the polite facade people often put on, even when they feel the opposite. This can highlight the tension between authenticity and societal expectations, suggesting that surviving in society sometimes requires a level of disingenuousness.

Themes

PolitenessRelationshipsSocial InteractionsFacadeAuthenticity

In practice

Example use cases

During a networking event where you meet someone you don't particularly like but need to maintain a professional demeanor.

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