For my peculiar face, I look best when I look as though I'm not wearing make-up.
Lauren BacallRead
I was always a little unsteady in my self-belief. Then there was the Jewish thing. I love being Jewish, I have no problem with it at all. But it did become like a scar, with all these people saying you don't look it.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects the personal struggle with self-identity and external perceptions. It highlights the tension between self-acceptance and societal expectations.
Lauren Bacall expresses her journey with self-belief amid the complexities of cultural identity. While she embraces her Jewish heritage, the statement reveals how society's expectations can create internal conflict, making one feel unsteady and isolated in their self-perception. The 'scar' metaphor suggests that external opinions can leave lasting impressions on one's self-confidence.
Themes
IdentitySelf-BeliefJewishAcceptanceCulturalSociety
In practice
Example use cases
During a discussion on cultural identity at a community center.
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All quotes →I think your whole life shows in your face and you should be proud of that.
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I was this kid, and I was scared to death of all these pros around me... My head would shake, and my hands would shake, and I discovered if I kept my head down and looked up, my head would not shake, so I started to do that when I could, when it was appropriate in a scene.
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When everything happens to you when you're so young, you're very lucky, but by the same token, you're never going to have that same feeling again. The first time anything happens to you - your first love, your first success - the second one is never the same.
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I wasn't brought up as a society girl to go to balls and be a debutante and marry the social set and money and go to parties. No one in my family lived like that. And I never wanted to live like that. I was brought up to believe in work. I always wanted a career. Always.
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Well, the people I've known I must say are extraordinary. When I think about some of them, I can't believe that I knew them all. And I think the reason I knew most of them at the beginning was because they were of Bogie's generation, 25 years my senior, not mine. But they were the most talented people of all.
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