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It is always a mistake to be plain-spoken.
Gertrude Stein
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Being straightforward can often lead to misunderstandings or negative reactions.

Gertrude Stein's quote suggests that being too direct or honest in communication may not always be advisable, as it can provoke unwelcome responses or create discomfort. This observation points to the nuance involved in human interactions, where the way something is said may be just as important as the content of the message.

Themes

CommunicationHonestyMisunderstandingNuanceDirectness

In practice

Example use cases

During a meeting, one may want to choose their words carefully instead of being too blunt to avoid conflict.

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