How seldom we weigh our neighbor in the same balance with ourselves.
Thomas A KempisRead
Be not angry that you cannot make others as you wish them to be, since you cannot make yourself as you wish to be.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Accept that change in others is beyond your control, as you also struggle to change yourself.
This quote reflects the struggle of human nature in seeking to control others while also grappling with our own imperfections. It encourages humility and self-acceptance, reminding us that instead of trying to change those around us, we should focus on our own personal growth and understanding our limitations.
Themes
AcceptanceSelf-GrowthHumilityChangeControl
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about personal development during a workshop.
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