A broken heart in real life isn't half as dreadful as it is in books. It's a good deal like a bad tooth, though you won't think THAT a very romantic simile. It takes spells of aching and gives you a sleepless night now and then, but between times it lets you enjoy life and dreams and echoes and peanut candy as if there were nothing the matter with it.
Anne always remembered the silvery, peaceful beauty and fragrant calm of that night. It was the last night before sorrow touched her life; and no life is ever quite the same again when once that cold, sanctifying touch has been laid upon it.
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What this quote means
The quote reflects on a moment of beauty and peace before a significant sorrow, highlighting the lasting impact of such experiences on one's life.
In this quote, Lucy Maud Montgomery captures the essence of a poignant moment in life— the calm and beauty of a night cherished before personal sorrow enters one's existence. It emphasizes how certain experiences, especially those that bring joy or tranquility, can be forever altered by the presence of sorrow, indicating that life is often marked by contrasts between joy and suffering, and once sorrow touches our lives, it changes our perception and experience of happiness.
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This quote can be shared at a memorial service to reflect on cherished memories before loss.
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