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We are all very anxious to be understood, and it is very hard not to be. But there is one thing much more necessary.' What is that, grandmother?' To understand other people.' Yes, grandmother. I must be fair - for if I'm not fair to other people, I'm not worth being understood myself. I see.
George Macdonald
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Interpretation

What this quote means

It's essential to understand others rather than just seeking to be understood.

This quote emphasizes the importance of empathy and understanding in our interactions with others. George Macdonald suggests that while we often desire to be understood ourselves, it's even more crucial to make an effort to understand those around us, as fairness and mutual respect are foundational to meaningful relationships.

Themes

UnderstandingEmpathyFairnessRelationshipsRespect

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about communication skills, this quote can remind participants about the importance of listening.

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