...we shall board our imagined ship and wildly sail among sacred islands of the mad till death shatters the fabulous stars and makes us real.
Sylvia PlathRead
I do not love; I do not love anybody except myself. That is a rather shocking thing to admit. I have none of the selfless love of my mother. I have none of the plodding, practical love. . . . . I am, to be blunt and concise, in love only with myself, my puny being with its small inadequate breasts and meager, thin talents. I am capable of affection for those who reflect my own world.
Interpretation
The quote expresses a deep self-centeredness and a lack of selfless love for others.
In this quote, Sylvia Plath starkly reveals her feelings about love, stating that her affection is predominantly self-directed. She acknowledges her inability to love selflessly like a mother might, emphasizing her introspection and complicated relationship with self-identity. The poignant admission that she is capable of affection mainly for those who mirror her own experiences further highlights her struggle with connection to others.
In practice
In a discussion about self-acceptance at a mental health workshop.
...we shall board our imagined ship and wildly sail among sacred islands of the mad till death shatters the fabulous stars and makes us real.
The hardest thing, I think, is to live richly in the present, without letting it be tainted & spoiled out of fear for the future or regret for a badly-managed past.
It is as if my life were magically run by two electric currents: joyous positive and despairing negative--which ever is running at the moment dominates my life, floods it.
You walked in, laughing, tears welling confused, mingling in your throat. How can you be so many women to so many people, oh you strange girl?
I keep wanting to crawl back into the womb.
It's the living, the eating, the sleeping that everyone needs. Ideas don't matter so much after all. My three best friends are Catholic. I can't see their beliefs, but I can see the things they love to do on earth. When you come right down to it, I do believe in the freedom of the individual.
Had I been in love, I could not have been more wretchedly blind. But vanity, not love, has been my folly.
She is like a revolving lighthouse; pitch darkness alternating with a dazzling brilliancy!
My wife, my Mary, goes to her sleep the way you would close the door of a closet. So many times I have watched her with envy. Her lovely body squirms a moment as though she fitted herself into a cocoon. She sighs once and at the end of it her eyes close and her lips, untroubled, fall into that wise and remote smile of the Ancient Greek gods. She smiles all night in her sleep, her breath purrs in her throat, not a snore, a kitten's purr... She loves to sleep and sleep welcomes her.
Then he kissed her. At his lips' touch she blossomed for him like a flower and the incarnation was complete.
And then, strange to say, the first symptom of true love in a young man is timidity; in a girl, it is boldness.
Love wholeheartedly, be surprised, give thanks and praise then you will discover the fullness of your life.
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