To shift the structure of a sentence alters the meaning of that sentence, as definitely and inflexibly as the position of a camera alters the meaning of the object photographed.
Joan DidionRead
I don't think anybody feels like they're a good parent. Or if people think they're good parents, they ought to think again.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Parenting often comes with self-doubt, and even those who feel confident may need to reflect on their approach.
In this quote, Joan Didion expresses the idea that many parents struggle with the perception of their own parenting abilities. Rather than feeling entirely confident in their skills, most parents experience doubt and insecurity, suggesting that the complexities of parenthood require continual reflection and self-assessment.
Themes
ParentingSelf-DoubtReflectionInsecurityIdentity
In practice
Example use cases
During a parenting workshop, this quote can be used to resonate with parents experiencing doubt.
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