You have to build systems to protect against your lesser self.

- Neil Strauss

If there was anything I'd learned, it's that the man never chooses the woman. All he can do is give her an opportunity to choose him.

- Neil Strauss

It's not enough to just be yourself. You must be your best self

- Neil Strauss

One of the things I'd learned ... was how to take a compliment. Just say, "Thank you." It's the only response a confident person can make.

- Neil Strauss

In life, people tend to wait for good things to come to them. And by waiting, they miss out. Usually, what you wish for doesn't fall in your lap; it …

- Neil Strauss

A lot of guys are very intimidated by an attractive woman, and they dehumanise her because our culture perceives beautiful women as commodities. But …

- Neil Strauss

there are only so many ways to get rejected or ignored. It doesn't hurt at all anymore because why should someone who's a complete stranger have any …

- Neil Strauss

Without commitment, you cannot have depth in anything, whether it's a relationship, a business or a hobby.

- Neil Strauss

Alcohol has never caused anyone to do something they didn't want to do. It only enables them to do what they've always wanted but have instead repres…

- Neil Strauss