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When we desire or solicit anything, our minds run wholly on the good side or circumstances of it; when it is obtained, our minds run wholly on the bad ones.
Jonathan Swift
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote emphasizes how our perception shifts from positive anticipation to negative evaluation once we achieve our desires.

Jonathan Swift highlights a common psychological phenomenon where the anticipation of a desire is filled with hope and positivity, but once that desire is fulfilled, we become critical and focus on the potential downsides. This reflects a human tendency to overlook the challenges of obtaining what we want while fixating on the imperfections once it is achieved.

Themes

DesirePerceptionPsychologySatisfactionAnticipation

In practice

Example use cases

In a motivational speech about managing expectations in life.

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