Sadness is more or less like a head cold - with patience, it passes. Depression is like cancer.
April is the cruelest month, T.S. Eliot wrote, by which I think he meant (among other things) that springtime makes people crazy. We expect too much, the world burgeons with promises it can't keep, all passion is really a setup, and we're doomed to get our hearts broken yet again. I agree, and would further add: Who cares? Every spring I go out there anyway, around the bend, unconditionally. ... Come the end of the dark days, I am more than joyful. I'm nuts.
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What this quote means
This quote reflects on the complexities of hope and disappointment that spring brings, highlighting human resilience in the face of life's cyclical nature.
Barbara Kingsolver draws on T.S. Eliot's observation that while spring can feel cruel due to the high hopes it instills, leading to inevitable disappointment, she emphasizes an unconditional embrace of the season. Her perspective reveals a shared human experience: that despite knowing the potential for heartbreak, the joy and vitality of spring are worth the risk of emotional upheaval. Kingsolver ultimately champions a celebratory attitude towards life, valuing joy over fear of disappointment.
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Example use cases
During a spring retreat, you can quote this to inspire others to embrace the season despite uncertainties.
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