Words can never adequately convey the incredible impact of our attitudes toward life. The longer I live the more convinced I become that life is 10 percent what happens to us and 90 percent how we respond to it.
Charles R. SwindollRead
Authentic men aren't afraid to show affection, release their feelings, hug their children, cry when they're sad, admit it when they're wrong, and ask for help when they need it.
Interpretation
Authentic men openly express their emotions and vulnerabilities.
This quote emphasizes the importance of emotional honesty and vulnerability in men, illustrating that true strength lies in the ability to express affection, acknowledge mistakes, and seek support. It challenges traditional notions of masculinity that often inhibit men from showing their true feelings and connecting deeply with others.
In practice
In a parenting workshop, discussing the importance of emotional expression in fathers.
Words can never adequately convey the incredible impact of our attitudes toward life. The longer I live the more convinced I become that life is 10 percent what happens to us and 90 percent how we respond to it.
We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as impossible situations.
There is only one you. God wanted you to be you. Don't you dare change just because you're outnumbered!
We cannot change our past. We can not change the fact that people act in a certain way. We can not change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude.
Every one of us can blame somebody for something that has happened in our lives. But don't waste your time. What we need most is a steady stream of love flowing among us. Love that quickly forgives, willingly overlooks, and refuses to take offense.
Envy is one of the great enemies of active spirituality. It keeps us from loving our neighbours, from functioning with others in community, and from affirming people's unique worth. It also steals contentment from the heart. Is there anything or anyone you are envious of?
A person does not...stand motionless and clear before our eyes with his merits, his defects, his plans, his intentions with regard to ourself exposed on his surface...but is a shadow which we can never succeed in penetrating...a shadow behind which we can alternately imagine, with equal justification, that there burns the flame of hatred and of love.
We always deceive ourselves twice about the people we love - first to their advantage, then to their disadvantage.
Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.
It's always been a great survival value for people to believe they belong to a superior tribe. That's just in human relationships.
After telling the hard facts to anyone from lover to friend, I have changed in their eyes. Often it is awe or admiration, sometimes it is repulsion, once or twice it has been fury hurled directly at me for reasons I remain unsure of.
It is difficult to be generous-minded to those we have greatly harmed.
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