Personal relations are the important thing for ever and ever, and not this outer life of telegrams and anger.
E. M. ForsterRead
When you come back you will not be you. And I may not be I.
Interpretation
The quote suggests that change is inevitable and that individuals evolve over time, possibly altering their identities.
E. M. Forster's quote reflects the idea that experiences can fundamentally change a person. When we encounter new situations or leave a familiar environment, we often return changed—perhaps in our thoughts, feelings, or perspectives. The essence of who we are can shift with time and experience, highlighting the transformative power of life's journeys and relationships.
In practice
During a graduation speech highlighting the transformative journeys of students.
Personal relations are the important thing for ever and ever, and not this outer life of telegrams and anger.
A poem is true if it hangs together. Information points to something else. A poem points to nothing but itself.
One must be fond of people and trust them if one is not to make a mess of life.
Oxford is Oxford: not a mere receptacle for youth, like Cambridge. Perhaps it wants its inmates to love it rather than to love one another.
The fact is we can only love what we know personally. And we cannot know much. In public affairs, in the rebuilding of civilization, something less dramatic and emotional is needed, namely tolerance.
One person with passion is better than forty people merely interested.
It is youth’s felicity as well as its insufficiency that it can never live in the present, but must always be measuring up the day against its own radiantly imagined future
I'm still trying to figure out how to write about cancer and my family's experience with it. If I had been able to write 'The Pura Principle' back in those days, I'm positive it would have had no humor in it. Which means the story would have been false.
Life is for living and working at. If you find anything or anybody a bore, the fault is in yourself.
You can plan all you want to. You can lie in your morning bed and fill whole notebooks with schemes and intentions. But within a single afternoon, within hours or minutes, everything you plan and everything you have fought to make yourself can be undone as a slug is undone when salt is poured on him. And right up to the moment when you find yourself dissolving into foam you can still believe you are doing fine.
Everything was coming my way, but I was going down. I was painfully empty.
In the stormy current of life characters are weights or floats which at one time make us glide along the bottom, and at another maintain us on the surface.
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