The deep joy we take in the company of people with whom we have just recently fallen in love is undisguisable.
John CheeverRead
At my back I hear the word-"homosexual"-and it seems to split my world in two.... It is ignorance, our ignorance of one another, that creates this terrifying erotic chaos. Information, a crumb of information, seems to light the world.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote highlights how ignorance can lead to fear and division, specifically regarding sexuality, while knowledge can foster understanding and connection.
John Cheever's quote reflects on the profound impact of ignorance about homosexuality, suggesting that such ignorance can create a chaotic and fearful experience both personally and socially. He emphasizes that the mere acquisition of knowledge—represented metaphorically as 'a crumb of information'—has the power to illuminate and bridge the divides created by misunderstanding, ultimately facilitating greater empathy and connection among individuals.
Themes
IgnoranceKnowledgeUnderstandingSexualityRelationships
In practice
Example use cases
During a discussion about LGBTQ+ rights, one might quote Cheever to emphasize the importance of education in combating prejudice.
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