How many on their deathbeds wished they'd spent more time at the office - or watching TV? The answer is, No one.
Stephen CoveyRead
My behavior is a product of my own conscious choices based on principles, rather than a product of my conditions, based on feelings.
Interpretation
Our actions stem from deliberate choices informed by principles instead of being reactive to our circumstances or emotions.
In this quote, Stephen Covey emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility and conscious decision-making. He asserts that true behavior is not merely a result of external conditions or fleeting feelings, but rather stems from a deep understanding of one's principles and values, urging individuals to take charge of their actions and reactions in life.
In practice
During a leadership workshop to inspire self-awareness among participants.
How many on their deathbeds wished they'd spent more time at the office - or watching TV? The answer is, No one.
If you want to have a more pleasant, cooperative teenager, be a more understanding, empathic, consistent, loving parent. If you want to have more freedom, more latitude in your job, be a more responsible, a more helpful, a more contributing employee.
Listen with your eyes for feelings.
If we live out of our memory, we're tied to the past and to that which is finite. When we live out of our imagination, _x000D_ we're tied to that which is infinite.
Synergy is the highest activity of life; it creates new untapped alternatives; it values and exploits the mental, emotional, and psychological differences between people.
Keep in mind that you are always saying "no" to something. If it isn't to the apparent and urgent things in your life, it is probably to the most fundamental, highly important things.
Quick riches are more dangerous than poverty.
Let no one be willing to speak ill of the absent.
We are not responsible for the circumstances we are in, but we are responsible for the way we allow those circumstances to affect us; we can either allow them to get on top of us or we can allow them to transform us into what God wants us to be.
When someone is counting out gold for you, don't look at your hands, or the gold. Look at the giver.
A library of wisdom, is more precious than all wealth, and all things that are desirable cannot be compared to it. Whoever therefore claims to be zealous of truth, of happiness, of wisdom or knowledge, must become a lover of books.
The safest way of not being very miserable is not to expect to be very happy.
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