If thou wouldst be justified, acknowledge thine injustice. He that confesses his sin, begins his journey toward salvation. He that is sorry for it, mends his pace. He that forsakes it, is at his journey's end.
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Beware of him that is slow to anger; for when it is long coming, it is the stronger when it comes, and the longer kept. Abused patience turns to fury.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Be cautious of those who hold back their anger; when it finally emerges, it can be much more intense and damaging.
This quote warns us about the dangers of repressed emotions, particularly anger. It suggests that a person who seems calm and patient may harbor a significant amount of pent-up frustration, and when they finally express it, that outburst can be much more severe and destructive than if they had vocalized their feelings earlier. Abused patience is seen as something that can eventually lead to an uncontrollable outpouring of rage if not addressed.
Themes
AngerPatienceEmotionsWisdomSelf-Control
In practice
Example use cases
This quote could be used in a therapy session to emphasize the importance of expressing emotions healthily.
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