There is a blessing in losing the one we love. It's the blessing of self-transformation. You don't have to who you were anymore. You've struggled. And now you can change. It doesn't mean that bits of that person won't cling to you, they will throughout your life, but they are now subsumed into something greater. That person has given you, in fact, the most important blessing, which is they gave you the blessing of transforming your soul into something better, something more beautiful.
Interpretation
Losing a loved one can lead to personal growth and transformation.
This quote reflects the profound impact that love and loss can have on an individual. While losing someone deeply cherished is painful, it can also serve as a catalyst for personal transformation, allowing one to evolve beyond their past self. The memory of the loved one can continue to influence and shape one's identity, contributing to a deeper understanding of oneself and a more beautiful soul.
In practice
In a memorial speech, one could say, 'As we reflect on our loved one, let us remember that their loss is a blessing that transforms us into better individuals.'
Is it needy? It's not. We don't need each other. We just really, really enjoy each other. And we're good together. We're good people together. And I have the funniest feeling. I can really, truly touch this all, this happiness and the sadness too, I can trace all of it with my fingers. It isn't theoretical or distant. This feels like me. This is me. I love him, and, for the first time in a relationship, I also like me. Every time he says "I love you," I answer, "I believe you.
What people don't understand when you've already been a suicide and pulled through is that after the sadness comes fear: Where is my mind going with this? I don't want to die. I do not want to die. When you don't have so much control over your own thoughts, over the myriad voices in your head, you don't know where they could go.
I once had a thousand desires. But in my one desire to know you all else melted away.
If you abide in the love of Christ, rooted in the faith, you will encounter, even amid setbacks and suffering, the source of true happiness and joy. Faith does not run counter to your highest ideals; on the contrary, it elevates and perfects those ideals. Dear young people, do not be satisfied with anything less than Truth and Love, do not be content with anything less than Christ.
Now love's the only thing that's free /We must take it where it's found /Pretty soon it may be costly
Trust is our gift back to God, and he finds it so enchanting that Jesus died for love of it
What has never changed, what is always present and what is, in the end, what sustains us is that energy that I talk about in 'Like Water for Chocolate...' that loving energy. Without that, I wouldn't have had the strength to keep going and enjoy life.
Whoever you are, now I place my hand upon you/ That you may be my poem/ I whisper with my lips close to your ear/ I have loved many women and men, but I love none better than you.
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