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To find yourself jilted is a blow to your pride. Do your best to forget it and if you don't succeed, at least pretend to.
Moliere
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Being rejected can hurt your self-esteem, but it's important to move on and act as if you're okay.

This quote emphasizes the emotional turmoil that comes with being rejected by someone you care for. Moliere suggests that feeling jilted is not just painful but also a hit to one's pride, and encourages individuals to try to forget their pain. If forgetting proves difficult, he advises to at least put on a brave face and pretend to be unaffected, highlighting the importance of resilience in the face of emotional distress.

Themes

RejectionPrideResilienceMoving OnEmotions

In practice

Example use cases

A friend is going through a breakup and needs encouragement.

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