Life with most teenagers was like having a low-grade bladder infection. It hurts, but you had to tough it out.
Anne LamottRead
Because this business of becoming conscious, of being a writer, is ultimately about asking yourself, How alive am I willing to be?
Interpretation
This quote emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and the willingness to engage fully with life as a criterion for becoming a true writer.
Anne Lamott's quote highlights that the journey of becoming a conscious writer involves deep self-reflection and an exploration of one's own existence. It suggests that writing is not merely a technical skill but a profound engagement with one's own life experiences, feelings, and consciousness, prompting individuals to assess the depth of their own awareness and aliveness.
In practice
In a writing workshop, I shared the quote to inspire participants to reflect on their personal growth.
Life with most teenagers was like having a low-grade bladder infection. It hurts, but you had to tough it out.
Or you might shout at the top of your lungs or whisper into your sleeve, "I hate you, God." That is a prayer too, because it is real, it is truth, and maybe it is the first sincere thought you've had in months.
Your problem is how you are going to spend this one odd and precious life you have been issued. Whether you're going to spend it trying to look good and creating the illusion that you have power over people and circumstances, or whether you are going to taste it, enjoy it and find out the truth about who you are.
It is hard to remember that you are a cherished spiritual being when you're burping up apple fritters and Cheetos.
Gorgeous, amazing things come into our lives when we are paying attention: mangoes, grandnieces, Bach, ponds. This happens more often when we have as little expectation as possible. If you say, "Well, that's pretty much what I thought I'd see," you are in trouble. At that point you have to ask yourself why you are even here. [...] Astonishing material and revelation appear in our lives all the time. Let it be. Unto us, so much is given. We just have to be open for business.
...because when people have seen you at their worst, you don't have to put on the mask as much.
What really counts are good endings, not flawed beginnings.
Once you lose that sense of wonder at being alive, you're pretty much on the way out.
It's the action, not the fruit of the action, that's important. You have to do the right thing. It may not be in your power, may not be in your time, that there'll be any fruit. But that doesn't mean you stop doing the right thing. You may never know what results come from your action. But if you do nothing, there will be no result.
Trade your expectations for appreciation and the world changes instantly.
If you want to give light to others you have to glow yourself.
Fair speech may hide a foul heart.
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