It's funny: when people always talk about the importance of role models, I used to think that was so exaggerated, but as I get older, I start to realize I don't feel that way so much anymore. If you see somebody like you who's doing something, an older version of what you are, it does make you feel like it's more possible.
I bought a cactus. A week later it died. And I got depressed, because I thought, Damn. I am less nurturing than a desert.
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What this quote means
The quote humorously reflects on the speaker's lack of ability to care for a plant, leading to self-deprecation.
In this quote, Demetri Martin uses humor to express a deeper sentiment about feeling inadequate and unskilled in nurturing living things. The death of the cactus becomes a metaphor for his perceived failure in nurturing, emphasizing not just the loss of the plant but a moment of self-reflection and existential questioning. It cleverly juxtaposes human emotions with the stark, often harsh nature of a desert environment, illustrating how personal shortcomings can lead to moments of unexpected introspection.
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In a comedy set discussing the challenges of keeping plants alive.
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Fly-fishing may be a very pleasant amusement; but angling or float fishing I can only compare to a stick and a string, with a worm at one end and a fool at the other.
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The nice part about being a pessimist is that you are constantly being either proven right or pleasantly surprised.
I think as much as I talk about humour being a defence mechanism, I'm also really grateful that I developed it, because I now have it as a choice, rather than a panic button. I feel like it's there if I want to use it. It's fun.
Just because you have the emotional range of a teaspoon doesn't mean we all have.