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I did not believe him capable of love. That is an emotion in which tenderness is an essential part, but Strickland had no tenderness either for himself or for others; there is in love a sense of weakness, a desire to protect, an eagerness to do good and to give pleasure--if not unselfishness, at all events a selfishness which marvellously conceals itself; it has in it a certain diffidence.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote explores the complexities of love, suggesting it involves tenderness, weakness, and a desire to care for others, qualities lacking in the character referenced.
In this quote, W. Somerset Maugham reflects on the nature of love by highlighting the essential qualities of tenderness and selflessness that typically characterize it. He contrasts these qualities with the persona of Strickland, who is devoid of such emotional depth, underscoring that love is not merely an emotion but a nuanced interplay of vulnerability, empathy, and inherent self-interest that shapes human connections.
Themes
LoveTendernessEmotionRelationshipsVulnerability
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about emotional intelligence, one might reference this quote to illustrate the importance of tenderness in relationships.
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