I am an ordinary person who has been blessed with extraordinary opportunities and experiences.
Sonia SotomayorRead
I listened very, very carefully to the world around me to pick up the signals of when trouble was coming. Not that I could stop it. But it made me observant. That was helpful when I became a lawyer, because I knew how to read people's signals.
Interpretation
Being observant and aware of one's surroundings can be valuable in anticipating challenges.
This quote emphasizes the importance of attentiveness and observation in everyday life. Sonia Sotomayor reflects on how her ability to listen and pick up signals from the world around her helped shape her skills as a lawyer, illustrating that awareness can lead to better understanding and preparation for potential difficulties, even if you cannot prevent them.
In practice
During a motivational speech about the importance of paying attention to your environment.
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