Do good by stealth, and blush to find it fame.
Alexander PopeRead
Chaste to her husband, frank to all beside, A teeming mistress, but a barren bride.
Interpretation
The quote contrasts the expectations and realities of marital fidelity and sexual potency.
In this quote, Alexander Pope highlights the complex dynamics of marriage and infidelity, illustrating how a woman may be loyal and virtuous to her husband while simultaneously engaging in extramarital relationships. The term 'teeming mistress' suggests a vibrant sexual life outside of marriage, juxtaposed with the idea of being a 'barren bride' who is unable or unwilling to bear children, emphasizing the societal pressures surrounding fidelity and procreation.
In practice
This quote can be used in a discussion about the complexities of modern marriage.
Do good by stealth, and blush to find it fame.
What dire offence from am'rous causes springs, What mighty contests rise from trivial things.
Fair tresses man's imperial race ensnare; And beauty draws us with a single hair.
An honest man's the noblest work of God.
One thought of thee puts all the pomp to flight;_x000D_ _x000D_ Priests, tapers, temples, swim before my sight.
Who breaks a butterfly on a wheel?
They came to her, naturally, since she was a woman, all day long with this and that; one wanting this, another that; the children were growing up; she often felt she was nothing but a sponge sopped full of human emotions.
Trust is that rare and priceless treasure that wins us the affection of our heavenly Father.
Love your Neighbour; yet don't pull down your Hedge.
When we cast our bread upon the waters we can presume that someone downstream whose face we will never know will benefit from our action, as we who are downstream from another will profit from the grantor's gift.
Dumbledore paused, and although his voice remained light and calm, and he gave no obvious sign of anger, Harry felt a kind of chill emanating from him and noticed that the Dursleys drew very slightly closer together. βYou did not do as I asked. You have never treated Harry as a son. He has known nothing but neglect and often cruelty at your hands. The best that can be said is that he has at least escaped the appalling damage you have inflicted upon the unfortunate boy sitting between you.
In all our contacts it is probably the sense of being really needed and wanted which gives us the greatest satisfaction and creates the most lasting bond.
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