A child is nothing like a racing car. . . . Souping up babies doesn't work that way. The child is what she is. There is a certainirreducible if elusive core. Pushing, pulling, stretching, and shrinking will not really change it. There may be spectacular interim results. The baby may say the alphabet before she walks, master two-times or even ten-times table at three. In the long run, however, this forced precocity tends to be irrelevant. . . . Whatever gains there are become unimportant. The losses can be irrevocable.
Parents' ability to survive a child's unabating needs, wants, and demands...varies enormously. Some people can give and give....Whether children are … - Stella Chess
Parents' ability to survive a child's unabating needs, wants, and demands...varies enormously. Some people can give and give....Whether children are …
- Stella Chess
Many children grow through adolescence with no ripples whatever and land smoothly and predictably in the adult world with both feet on the ground. So… - Stella Chess
Many children grow through adolescence with no ripples whatever and land smoothly and predictably in the adult world with both feet on the ground. So…
Adolescents may be, almost simultaneously, overconfident and riddled with fear. They are afraid of their overpowering feelings, oflosing control, of … - Stella Chess
Adolescents may be, almost simultaneously, overconfident and riddled with fear. They are afraid of their overpowering feelings, oflosing control, of …
You can read the best experts on child care. You can listen to those who have been there. You can take a whole childbirth and child-care course witho… - Stella Chess
You can read the best experts on child care. You can listen to those who have been there. You can take a whole childbirth and child-care course witho…
An actress reading a part for the first time tries many ways to say the same line before she settles into the one she believes suits the character an… - Stella Chess
An actress reading a part for the first time tries many ways to say the same line before she settles into the one she believes suits the character an…
A child is nothing like a racing car. . . . Souping up babies doesn't work that way. The child is what she is. There is a certainirreducible if elusi… - Stella Chess
A child is nothing like a racing car. . . . Souping up babies doesn't work that way. The child is what she is. There is a certainirreducible if elusi…
Life begins at six--at least in the minds of six-year-olds. . . . In kindergarten you are the baby. In first grade you put down the baby. . . . Every… - Stella Chess
Life begins at six--at least in the minds of six-year-olds. . . . In kindergarten you are the baby. In first grade you put down the baby. . . . Every…
Fathers can seem powerful and overwhelming to their daughters. Let her see your soft side. Express your feelings and reactions. Tell her where you ca… - Stella Chess
Fathers can seem powerful and overwhelming to their daughters. Let her see your soft side. Express your feelings and reactions. Tell her where you ca…
Four- and five-year-olds' play is permeated with the rankest sexism. No matter what their parents do and say, they play their momand pop roles in ult… - Stella Chess
Four- and five-year-olds' play is permeated with the rankest sexism. No matter what their parents do and say, they play their momand pop roles in ult…
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